After twelve years of loving, helping, driving, paying, and showing up, my stepchildren told me, “You’re not the one who raised us.” So I finally stopped being the woman they only needed when life got hard. When they asked where I went, their mother knew the truth.

I expect. I know I hurt you. I know saying sorry doesn’t fix it. But you did raise parts of me. The parts that know how to make a doctor’s appointment, compare loan terms, write thank-you notes, and keep emergency cash in my glove compartment. I hear your voice in my head all the time, and I hate that I made you feel like you didn’t matter.

Lily

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