When I Dropped Out At 20, My Sister Told Everyone: “She’s The One Who Didn’t Finish.” Twelve Years Later, I’m Yale’s Dean Of Admissions. One Essay Read: “My Family Moved Past My Aunt’s Setback.” The Name? Amanda Chen. My Niece. I Picked Up My Red Pen And…

who had quietly overturned a family myth with a Google search and a college essay. “Yes,” I said. “I’d like that.” There was a small silence, then Jennifer said something I had wanted for twelve years and no longer knew what to do with. “I’m proud of you, Rachel.” I did not say it back immediately. When I finally answered, it was the truest thing I continue reading …